Internet dating and phone calls
You have to accept the bad guy or girl role unless you want to create an even angrier person out of your former prospect.
Realize that many people forget how little time they actually have invested in their exchanges and that they don’t have a good perspective on their circumstances.
The appropriate actions to take include Occasionally, you’ll run into people who just won’t stop contacting you even after you’ve rejected them.
Most often, people don’t let go because they’ve developed fantasies from your photo and essay.
You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate way.
However, if you’re a drama king or queen, don’t practice your art of “the sky is falling.” If you fabricate e-mails and try to damage someone’s reputation, you’ll run foul of several civil and criminal laws — maybe even antiterrorism federal law.
By Judith Silverstein, Michael Lasky The Internet is a strange place, and what seems abnormal for in-person experiences is completely common on the Internet.
Notice that the word is common, not polite or considerate.
Note that at Match.com, you need to turn your invisible status on each time you log in.
It often provides the first direct contact with the other person outside of texting or emailing, meaning that it plays a huge role in establishing first impressions.